
I am at a table surrounded by my boyfriend's friends, "Les Copins." It's the first time i've seen them in months so I don't have the courage to jump back into crooked, clunky French. There is a comfort in being surrounded by alien phrases. I can smile and nod and attempt to decipher words, if i'm feeling lively. I can also sit back and stare blankly into my beer or a mirror or the street and be completely justified in it. I can enjoy the lightness and optimism of drinking without interruption. I can drink alone, together. From the cover of foreigness, i can spy. Be a witness to the scene. See myself at the table, in the lipstick, next to the dancing.
I am here to be surprised. That's what I say. Truer than that might be that i'm here to inhabit a role I've been preparing for my whole life. A role in which I pout and drink wine with lunch and smoke cigarettes in bed and sleep with mustacheod men and am a feminist. A role loosely based on Jean Seberg's life. This is the French Dream. I was aware of these dark motivations every time I claimed, "I am going to learn the language," or "I am going to be independent." These acceptable answers are only dishonest in that they are side-effects or benefits of the ultimate French wisdoms: how to reconcile abandon and restraint in every gesture. How to admire excess but stay just shy of it. How to be earnest without being soft.

I get up and needle my way between two bodies exaggerated by winter-wear--getting across a bar is a feat due to the unshakeable popularity of puffy jackets. I am finally spit out, as through an ice chute, and ricochet off the bar.
"Trois pints s'il vous plait?" the order comes out a truncated question.
"Comment?" I am asked, understandably.
"Trois pints." The second time is always harder because my accent has usually caught at least one bystander's attention.
We go back and forth for a bit until I motion towards the tap, at which point my nemesis throws up her arms in surprise. Two men to my left are amused by my performance and decide to see how i do under pressure.
"ja vous blah jean cloc"...the first one seems to say. His big watery eyes blink once, firmly, in the sorry pause.
"Pardon?" I attempt, the heavy "R" sticking to the bottom of my throat.
"Where you from?" his friend asks.
"California."
"Oh Good." The men share a look and a laugh, "We thought maybe England."
"Really? You're happy that i'm American?."
"Bien sur!"
"But...why?"
"Because you didn't kill Jean D'Arc, manifestement!"
The lights are dimmed. We, Les Copins, move to the back of the room. Drunk enough to dance. The boys are shuffling and bobbing in arrhythms--occasional arm activity for flare. We morph into a loose circle. We disband when we remember the indignity of obvious affection. Glasses are broken and swept. We go.